Christians Have NOT Replaced Israel

If you are a Christian, then it is likely you may have a difficult time understanding many things within the pages of the bible. The first is readily apparent, there are so many versions with so many translations that coalescing them all into one narrative is revealing (though these differences do not doom the bible, since there are virtually no concepts that contradict biblical soteriology). The second is much more complex because so many Christians believe that they have replaced Israel in G-d’s plan, but unless you are Jewish and a believer in Yeshua Hanatzriy, Melekh HaMashiach you are not a Messianic Jew. That is both a genetic and cultural phenomenon concerning salvation and of understanding how Eastern people think which is important to an understanding of scripture in context. Take marriage and remarriage for instance.

Christians, especially Western Christians live lives radically different from ancient Jews and have a difficult time fully understanding ancient biblical customs in the word. The Bible was written within a culture of a nomadic people who lived 1,900 to 3,400 years ago. For Western Christians, this may be a bridge too far, a cultural gap. This process becomes more complicated when one adds the unique character of the varied genres in which it was written; law, poetry, songs, wisdom literature, prophecy, personal letters, and apocalyptic literature. Finally, the fact remains that G-d still has a plan for His people. He initiated His plan for mankind through the Jews to the nations (goyim). Christians do not replace Israel in the bible.

“The Bible is not the book many American fundamentalists and political opportunists think it is, or more precisely, what they want it to be. Their lack of knowledge about the Bible is well established.”

“The Bible: So Misunderstood It’s a Sin,” Kurt Eichenwald, published in Newsweek in January 2015

Another misunderstanding is the contention that Yeshua contradicts G-d’s revealed word (in the Torah). The grave error here is that Yeshua is G-d, and is perfect for HE is G-d. He is the great I am (John 18:6) and said so with such power that men rushing to arrest Him fell to the ground upon hearing, “I AM he.” So it is apparent that Yeshua in pre-incarnate form as revealed in the Torah would not contradict His own word.

God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?

Numbers 23:19

Rav Shaul (Paul) wrote, “…it is not as though G-d’s word has failed,” and again “if we are faithless, He remains faithful, for He cannot deny Himself (2 Timothy 2:13). G-d can not lie, nor will He change His mind on matters of doctrine given in the Torah. But about people? Yes, He can and has repented of the evil they deserved when they repent of their personal evil (sin). (2 Kings 20 regarding Hezekiah)

When He “repented” or changed His mind after we have repented of sin He will do good for us for our own good. He does not judge or destroy unless we refuse to repent. For instance, the story of Nineveh in the book of Yonah whom G-d sent to warn Nineveh they were doomed unless they repented. He fully intended to destroy that nation, but the entire nation repented. Through their choice to accede to His will and repent, He showed mercy consistent with His character and holiness and forgave them putting off judgment for a time.

This leads to an interesting question: Does this same thing happen today?

When we repent G-d can and does, in warning us of sin, show mercy to withhold the judgment we rightly deserve. King David saw a beautiful woman bathing in full view of the parapet of her home. He desired her. He took her. He tried to hide what he had done after she said she was pregnant. He killed her husband and took her as his wife. Later, G-d (through His prophet) did NOT command David to divorce Bathsheba, though He required the life of the child conceived in adultery. They remained married and had Solomon who later became king of Israel and in whose line was born Yeshua Hanatzriy, Melekh HaMashiach, Immanuel. (The point is not that David had many wives for this was then culturally accepted, even as we consider it a sin today; but he remained married to Bathsheba.)

Some preachers preach that if you divorce and then remarry, to fully repent of adultery, you MUST divorce your spouse. Some go further preaching you must remarry your original spouse. The problems with this teaching are many and has profoundly impacted many people and destroyed marriages for it is a false teaching. This is very clearly spelled out in Deuteronomy.

…The former husband who sent her away shall not be able to return and take her to himself for a wife, after she has been defiled; because it is an abomination before the Lord thy God, and ye shall not defile the land, which the Lord thy God gives thee to inherit.

Deuteronomy 24:4

Those who teach your first marriage is the only holy marriage are in error. Consider that Israel disobeyed G-d and intermarried with unbelievers and when they repented they sent those first wives and their children away in divorce. Yes, I did say being a believer was not the same as being Jewish, but this sin of intermarriage was a sin nonetheless and Israel divorced their wives (Ezra 10). It is possible (given the debate surrounding this event) that it took months to give their wives a choice to convert – or to leave, but it remains that Israel divorced unbelieving pagan wives and sent them away.

From reading Ezra we are not told if this was a good or bad decision, just that it happened, and nowhere does the bible hold that the men of Israel who divorced pagan wives were condemned to remain unmarried. This would have been unthinkable given how important family, descendants, and inheritances were to Israel.

Are you divorced and remarried? Then stand. Obey G-d and live in His will with your present spouse.

Dr. Ramón Argila de Torres y Sandoval

Learning to Live with Marriage Norms

One day at a time

I discovered several important things long ago.

When I consider how to react to a collision of wills, I find that if I slow down and ask myself two questions; one is, “Is this worth arguing over?” And the next is, “Will this be something I will be upset about tomorrow.” Usually, I discovered that the answers to both questions were, “No.” Then I’d use this as an opportunity to improve my relationship.

Let me cite an example: I know a couple, just an average couple who were on their 2nd and 3rd marriages. As to be expected they were concerned the habits of yesterday would continue on into the 3rd and 4th marriage (for each) respectively, that is, to disrupt another marriage. They knew how their former marriages had failed and were determined that the past would not dictate the future. They both chose to consider how to make good habits through choice.

By habits I mean those ingrained, almost instinctive reactions we all have to life’s events. While it is true that small things bothering you can build up, it is equally true that you can choose how you respond to negative input.

When she left the shower light on after an evening shower the light would illuminate the room and make sleeping a challenge. He decided that this was not worthy of an argument, nor was it something that would last into the next day, and he deliberately chose to improve instead of letting it fester day by day.

He began to recite in his mind all the reasons he loved her and decided to look at the light as a way to perform a service to his wife. Each time he saw the light it became less of an intrusion and more of a loving service to the woman he dearly loved. He was essentially becoming joyful as he said, “I can do this for her. I can help her.” And his love for her grew with each day.

Little things can grow, but you choose which ones to water.

Here is a suggested document you may consider as an aid to scriptural Marriage Norms.

Marriage Norms

1. Remember that we love each other.

Ephesians 4:2-3 – Always be humble, gentle, and patient, bearing with one another in love, and making every effort to preserve the unity the Spirit gives through the binding power of shalom.

2. Listen respectfully when the other is speaking.

Luke 11:28 — But he said, “Far more blessed are those who hear the word of G-d and obey it!”

3. Provide an opportunity for the other person to speak.

Proverbs 15:23 — People take pleasure in anything they say; but a word at the right time, is very good.

4. Choose to be solution-oriented.

Proverbs 3:6 — In all your ways acknowledge him; then He will level your paths.

5. Acknowledge that Adonai is the ruler of the Universe and also our home.

Joshua 24:15If it seems bad to you to serve Adonai, then choose today whom you are going to serve! Will it be the gods your ancestors served beyond the River? or the gods of the Emori, in whose land you are living? As for me and my household, we will serve Adonai!

5A. Acknowledge the plain meaning of scripture

2 Timothy 3:16-17 — All Scripture is G-d-breathed and is valuable for teaching the truth, convicting of sin, correcting faults, and training in right living; thus anyone who belongs to G-d may be fully equipped for every good work.

6. Take time to relax together, unwind, and have a date night.

Ecclesiastes 11:10 — Therefore, remove anger from your heart; and keep from harming your body; for neither adolescence nor youth has any lasting value.

  6A. Sex – I Corinthians 7:5 — Do not deprive each other, except for a limited time, by mutual agreement, and then only so as to have extra time for prayer; but afterwards, come together again. Otherwise, because of your lack of self-control, you may succumb to the Adversary’s temptation.

  6B. Personal time – Matthew 6:6 — But you, when you pray, go into your room, close the door, and pray to your Father in secret. Your (heavenly) Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.

7. Honor your vows and do not make rash promises.

Ecclesiastes 5:4 — Better not to make a vow than to make a vow and not discharge it.

Barriers and Concerns:

1. Schedule time for each other’s needs – body clock, wake, sleep, work, or leisure

Ecclesiastes 3: 7– a time to tear and a time to sew, a time to keep silent and a time to speak.

2. Pray and seek wisdom. At times the articulation of situations is difficult because it may be stated in a way that is not received well by the other person.

Jeremiah 33:3 — Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.

3. Express needs promptly; seek to clarify not confront or diminish. Schedule time for discussion.

Ephesians 4:26 — You can “Be angry, but don’t sin – don’t let the sun go down before you have dealt with the cause of your anger…”

4. Pressures regarding personal health – hormone levels, allergies, health matters, family – social relationships – personal preferences with time usage, and other events.

1 Peter 5: 7 — Throw all your anxieties upon him, because he cares about you.

5. Time to focus and listen for meaning in silence.

James 1:26 — Anyone who thinks he is religiously observant but does not control his tongue is deceiving himself, and his observance counts for nothing.

Ecclesiastes 3:7 — a time to tear and a time to sew, a time to keep silent and a time to speak,

Potential Solutions

1. Prioritize/Honor scheduled times, whenever possible. If not then reschedule the next opportunity.

Colossians 4:5 — Behave wisely toward outsiders, making full use of every opportunity

2. Articulate the feeling in difficult situations in a way that is received well by the other person.

Ephesians 4:29 — Let no harmful language come from your mouth, only good words that are helpful in meeting the need, words that will benefit those who hear them.

3. Never assume understanding, ask for clarification before action.

Proverbs 4:7 — The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.

Goals and Opportunities:

1. Honor scheduled times.

2 Timothy 2:15 — Do all you can to present yourself to God as someone worthy of his approval, as a worker with no need to be ashamed, because he deals straightforwardly with the Word of the Truth.

2. Articulate feelings in a kind and timely manner.

Proverbs I6:24 — Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweet to the taste and healing for the body.

G-d bless and Shalom.

Dr. Ramón Argila de Torres y Sandoval